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Custom Hats

Please Visit Our Friends at O'Farrell Santa Fe

The World's Best Custom Hat Makers

My Husband with O'Farrell Hat: Photo Copyright M-J de Mesterton 2008

O'Farrell Santa Fe, located directly across from the world-famous La Fonda Hotel, custom makes fur felt hats for ladies and gentlemen of discerning taste. Cowboy hats are a specialty, but O'Farrell will make any style to satisfy a client's request. Fedoras, town and country trilbies, homburgs, ranchers, and gamblers are among the many elegant hats available through the shop. All work is done on the premises, by hand. And the felt itself is the best available anywhere in the world--there are two levels of fur felt, one mostly beaver, the other 100% beaver; prices start at $750 (USD), a reasonable tariff for lasting beauty and dependability. The O'Farrell hat is distinguished by the quality of hand work that goes into its construction: carefully fashioned sweatbands are stitched for a lifetime of comfortable wear; the felt is sculpted with loving attention to every detail of fit and style measurement; the shape of the crown and brim are customized to each client's exact specifications. And the fit itself is guaranteed by the novel--and wonderfully old-fashioned--use of a century-old machine that first moulds to the intended wearer's head and then creates a paper pattern that replicates the shape of his or her skull, which is both revelatory and amusing. The O'Farrell hat will last through generations of wear, which makes it a true value acquisition to serve faithfully and reliably. When you purchase an O'Farrell hat, you invest in the best!    

 

The Ultimate Elegant Survival Tool

Thursday, August 23, 2007 And Now, This Important Message...
...Introducing Santa Fe Sticks
The Strongest, Most Beautiful Walking Sticks and Canes in the World--Custom-Made to Your Specifications
The Ultimate Elegant Survival Tools, Handcrafted in Exotic Rare Woods
 
"Don't be a hick--get yourself a Santa Fe Stick!"
 
Available in unique editions at O'Farrell Custom Hat Shop, Santa Fe

 

Elegant Accessories at Affordable Auctions

The Hat for a Lifetime, by O'Farrell of Santa Fe, New Mexico

O'Farrell Custom Hat Shop, Santa Fe


Photo Copyright Elegant Survival 2008
M-J in Her Old Straw, Ordering a Hat



From O'Farrell Custom Hat Shop, Santa Fe, New Mexico
M-J's O'Farrell Hat, Photo Copyright Elegant Survival 2008


 

Elegant Survival Recommends Safety Accessories

Elegant Survival's Recommended Source for Self-Defense Tools

The Merits of Wearing Gloves

The Merits of Wearing Gloves, and the Scourge of Staphylococcus Aureus

Staphylia Oil on Canvas 16" X 20" by M-J de Mesterton, Copyright 2006

I posted something about wearing gloves in December, 2006. Somehow, after many months, and while rearranging my material, the piece has gone missing. Here's my attempt at reconstructing it: I had worn long kid gloves to an evening holiday party, and my husband wore elegant gloves as well. A young lady commented favourably on our style. I spoke briefly about the merits of wearing gloves, expressing the hope that it would again become routine. I mentioned the scourge of staphylococcus aureus, whereupon she held up her hand with its missing finger--lost to the superbug!
For years, I was regarded as an oddball simply for wearing driving gloves. I also wore gloves at the supermarket to ward-off transference of germs on carts, et cetera*. I've read somewhere recently that glove-wearing is back in style. I hope that's true.
M-J de Mesterton September 11th, 2007
*I also wash every grocery item which enters our house.

I have been writing about this for more than two years, and no doubt some people have scoffed. Eyes glaze over when this subject is mentioned, and the speaker is written-off as a germophobe.
That attitude has changed overnight. MRSA, or antibiotic-resistant Staphylococcus Aureus isn't just a hospital-acquired disease anymore. Elegant Survival's Face and Figure page alludes to the intrinsic unhealthiness of health-clubs and public gyms. The noise level of the "music" played can deafen you, and the transmission of germs and viruses on the surfaces there may sicken. However, I wanted to be a bit delicate and not graphic, so I determined to return to the topic with a well-crafted, diplomatic way of saying, "If you value your health, stay out of health-clubs!"

I belonged to three such clubs in the past, beginning with the old Henry Hudson Health Club on 57th Street in New York City. I was disgusted when, using the women's sauna, I found the panties of other members hanging up to dry in there. Being of Swedish and Finnish descent, this abuse rankled; I also knew that moisture in the sauna ("sow-nah" is the correct pronunciation) would defeat their idiotic purpose. I cleaned-off every piece of gym equipment before use, using rubbing alcohol. It has been thirteen years since I have darkened the door of one of those clubs, because the noise got louder and the germs deadlier. Now, my logic has borne out, with the major press agencies finally giving the flesh-eating disease MRSA, or antibiotic-resistant Staphylococcus Aureus (staphylia means "grapes" in Greek--the virus is shaped like a bunch of them), the attention it deserves. Human nature usually demands that someone die before a danger is recognised, but there have been more deaths from this than the AIDS virus, going unnoticed until now.


My husband and I, as I am fond of telling you, wear gloves everywhere we go, unless it is very hot weather. We keep hand-sanitizer in the car and in our bags. Consider the objects one must handle outside the home, in public--pens, products, door-handles--there's an infinite variety of things which can bear germs and viruses. If you don't like to wear gloves in public, at least use something to clean the shopping cart handle when you're marketing. Some supermarkets offer them in a dispenser near the carts.

Thoughtfulness in life, and keen awareness of our surroundings and habits, can help us survive even the most rampant modern scourge. After all, carelessness wrought by jaded arrogance has created just that: a deadly epidemic.

M-J de Mesterton, 2007

 Our Favourite Source: Gloves Online

 

 

O'Farrell Custom Hat Shop, Santa Fe

M-J in O'Farrell Hat, 2008

M-J with O'Farrell Hat and Bookster UK Tweed Jacket:Rugged, Elegant Clothes that Will Last a Lifetime if Cared-for Properly (the walking stick is a great survival tool)

 

Floral Crowns

 

Thursday, June 5, 2008

Make a Floral Crown for May Day or Midsommar


 


Crown Princess Victoria of Sweden
Photo by Jonas Ekströmer/Scanpix 

 

M-J de M.,  Midsommar 2001

 

 

Gloves

Elegant Survival Recommends Gloves for Safety

I’ve advocated the wearing of gloves on Elegant Survival since its beginning in 2006. Try Gloves-Online.com for a wide variety of styles and price-ranges.
Inexpensive, Tough, Useful Leather Gloves: Just One of Many Styles at www.gloves-online.com

Inexpensive, Tough, Useful Leather Gloves: One of Many Styles at www.gloves-online.com

Wearing Scarves Different Ways

 Thanks to the Tie Rack, London

Elegant Jewellery

Wise Acquisitions and Care...

...of jewellery ("jewelry" in the U.S.) and watches. New information is continually being prepared on the subject, relevant to Elegant Survival's reinterpretation of luxury. How to Economise on Your Watch's Batteries While you are not wearing your battery-operated watch, pull out its stem. This stops the watch from running, thereby saving battery-power. Smart Jewellery Shopping When considering a jewellery purchase, keep in mind that small jewellers who custom-make an item for you will charge an exorbitant amount for their service, and may not offer an iron-clad guarantee. In fact, they may go out of business and disappear completely. The same goes for pieces on display in their vitrines. The smart place to shop is a jewellery chain-store like ZALE'S in the U.S., who not only will sell you an affordable insurance policy on the stones and settings, but, because of their high volume of sales, can afford to offer beautiful jewels at low prices. High Value for Your Money: Impeccable Swiss Watches by Tissot Tissot has been making fine watches in Switzerland since 1853. Not only do we own a couple of their well-priced watches, but my husband is a friend of Mr. Tissot. This Swiss company receives high accolades from watch fanciers worldwide. www.tissot.ch I think that the time has come to discourage people from buying trophy-watches like Rolex. The enormous amount of money paid for such shallow, trite status-symbols isn't representative of the comparative value, when you consider the excellent watches made in Switzerland (Tissot) and Japan (Seiko) for a fraction of the price. Copyright M-J de Mesterton, 2009 M-J would like to suggest an reliable source of fine watches--here.

Brilliant Kunzite Gems, Like Elegant Ladies, Must Avoid the Summer Sun The summer months are always fun and exciting, with activities that take place outside in the sun. The first thing that we ladies consider is our skin. It must be protected from sun rays at all cost, although we do not consider our jewelry to also be at risk. Those sun rays can create as much permanent damage to our jewelry as to our skin. One stone in particular to be very protective of is Kunzite. Kunzite Necklace, Courtesy of the Smithsonian Institution The species to which this precious gem belongs is known as spodumene, consisting of stones that come in a variety of colors. Kunzite can range from a soft pink to lilac pink due to the trace element of manganese that it contains. Violet-pink is considered one of its most valuable variations. The Kunzite gemstone was discovered in Pala, California, in 1902, by a gemologist and buyer for Tiffany & Co., George F. Kunz, for whom it was named. Many things need to be considered when fashioning Kunzite into a piece of jewelry. It is rather fragile (6 ˝-7 on the Mohs Scale of Mineral Hardness), and can chip or break easily. The gemstone is very difficult to facet because of its perfect cleavage characteristic. Jewelers must consider this at the design stage of a piece of jewelry made with Kunzite or any other soft, fragile stone. Whereas you, the consumer, must consider where and when the article of jewelry will be worn. Kunzite is considered an evening stone. If the gem is exposed to intense sun its color will fade. It would be very upsetting if, after enjoying a beautiful pink bauble all day in the sun, the lovely object of fond memory had now faded to a clear crystal color. Some gems must never be worn in daylight, hence the term “cocktail ring”. Jewelry made with Kunzite should be worn in the evening at dinner, where it can truly be appreciated. If fashioned into a ring, Kunzite's fire can be seen by your friends while dining in the evening; the color is soft and romantic, perfect for a candlelit dinner. The safest setting would be a necklace, where, unlike in a ring, Kunzite would not be bumped during manual activities. This beautiful, delicate jewel would rest most safely on your neck, and if while wearing it you should be exposed to outdoor light, just drape a lovely scarf over yourself for protection. I was able to enjoy viewing a spectacular necklace offered at Neiman Marcus, consisting of over 40 carats of Kunzite gems in 18-karat white gold. I asked the gentleman who showed me the piece if he was aware of its delicacy: he simply made a general comment about fine jewelry. No, too simple an answer, by far! Jewelry made with Kunzite requires full disclosure. The necklace in question was priced at more than $35,000 and I am sure that its future owner would be appalled if, after wearing it while yachting in the sun, she discovered the next day that the gems in her necklace were now a comparatively sad shade of clear white. One cannot blindly trust salespeople these days. You must take the initiative and do some research before making substantial purchases. The proper cleaning method of a gem must be disclosed, as well. Kunzite is temperature-sensitive. Do not clean it at home using an ultrasonic device. Instead, have Kunzite professionally cleaned by a reputable jeweler. Boldly ask what method will be used to clean your piece, and insist that it be done by someone with knowledge of your particular gem stone. A jeweler should not just pop it into an ultrasonic high-tech cleaning unit. The temperature at which these machines are set for cleaning diamonds is much too high for Kunzite. The heat alone will craze and fracture the stone. Kunzite is a beautiful gem that should be enjoyed with consideration and care. It is a rare stone that can be found in the United States in very large carat sizes. Just be aware of the gem’s characteristics, and its original, colorful fire can be experienced for many years. By Anna Gallucci Copyright August, 2009

Ring-Size Equivalents

Metric French/Japanese English American
37.8252 - A 1/2
38.4237 - A 1/2 3/4
39.0222 - B 1
39.6207 - B 1/2 1 1/4
40.2192 - C 1 1/2
40.8177 - C 1/2 1 3/4
41.4162 1 D 2
42.0147 2 D 1/2 2 1/4
42.6132 - E 2 1/2
43.2117 3 E 1/2 2 3/4
43.8102 4 F 3
44.4087 - F 1/2 3 1/4
45.0072 5 G 3 1/4
45.6057 - G 1/2 3 1/2
46.2042 6 H 3 3/4
46.8027 - H 1/2 4
47.4012 7 I 4 1/4
47.9997 8 I 1/2 4 1/2
48.5982 - J 4 3/4
49.1967 9 J 1/2 5
49.7952 10 K 5 1/4
50.3937 - K 1/2 5 1/2
50.9922 11 L 5 3/4
51.5907 - L 1/2 6
52.1892 12 M 6 1/4
52.7877 13 M 1/2 6 1/2
53.4660 - N 6 3/4
54.1044 14 N 1/2 7
54.7428 15 O 7
55.3812 - O 1/2 7 1/4
56.0196 16 P 7 1/2
56.6580 - P 1/2 7 3/4
57.2964 17 Q 8
57.9348 18 Q 1/2 8 1/4
58.5732 - R 8 1/2
59.2116 19 R 1/2 8 3/4
59.8500 20 S 9
60.4884 - S 1/2 9 1/4
61.1268 21 T 9 1/2
61.7652 22 T 1/2 9 3/4
62.4026 - U 10
63.0420 23 U 1/2 10 1/4
63.6804 24 V 10 1/2
64.3188 - V 1/2 10 3/4
64.8774 25 W 11
65.4759 - W 1/2 11 1/4
66.0744 26 X 11 1/2
66.6729 - X 1/2 11 3/4
67.2714 - Y 12
67.8699 - Y 1/2 12 1/4
68.4684 - Z 12 1/2

The Mohs Scale of Mineral Hardness

Hardness Stones and Other Materials
10 Diamond
9 Corundum (ruby, sapphire)
8 Beryl (emerald, aquamarine)
7.5 Garnet
6.5-7.5 Peridot, steel file
7.0 Quartz (amethyst, citrine, agate)
6 Feldspar (spectrolite)
5.5-6.5 Glass, typical
5 Apatite
4 Fluorite
3 Calcite, copper penny
2.5 Fingernail
2 Gypsum
1 Talc

How to Tie a Tie, by Robert Talbott of California